Ziglar gives quite an insightful look at dealing with people.
Have you ever had someone come to you complaining about their life..?
And you make the fatal mistake of trying to solve their problem for them..?
And then you found them disappointed by you solving the problem rather than just listening… allowing them to maintain their level of Significance..
They actually felt significant by having a big problem and moaning.. solving their problem has taken their significance away from them..
How strange is that..? or is it really strange..?
I’ve found taking full responsibility for my own problems rather than blaming others is a good first step.
A good next step making a list of what you appreciate, what you’re grateful for is an excellent next step.
Watch this video to find Zig’s take on this.